{"id":22770,"date":"2024-10-21T00:00:00","date_gmt":"2024-10-21T04:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.mesotheliomahope.com\/?p=22770"},"modified":"2024-10-22T12:19:37","modified_gmt":"2024-10-22T16:19:37","slug":"mesothelioma-survivor-builds-a-future","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.mesotheliomahope.com\/blog\/mesothelioma-survivor-builds-a-future\/","title":{"rendered":"Building a Future: How One Mesothelioma Survivor Fights a Stage 4 Diagnosis"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>Since his 2019 mesothelioma diagnosis, John Stahl \u2014 a devoted husband, father, grandfather, and friend \u2014 has been constructing something new: a life filled with love, adventure, and resilience.<\/em><\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<h2>From Construction to Cancer Recovery<\/h2>\n<p>Nevada resident John Stahl is used to building things. He spent decades in the construction industry doing commercial, industrial, and residential work.<\/p>\n<p>In the summer of 2019, he was looking forward to retirement to spend more time exploring the Nevada desert with his wife, Dee, and riding his off-road vehicle.<\/p>\n<p>But John had to learn how to build something different: a game plan for survival after being diagnosed with <a href=\"\/mesothelioma\/\">mesothelioma<\/a>, a rare and aggressive cancer caused by asbestos exposure.<\/p>\n<p>Now, more than 6 years later, John is constructing a life of happiness, love, and adventure despite his mesothelioma diagnosis.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\u201cI\u2019m doing very well, as a matter of fact. I play golf twice a week. I ride the side-by-side. I go hang out with my friends when they\u2019re around. Yeah, <strong>I\u2019m pretty well back to normal<\/strong>.\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>You can read more of John\u2019s story \u2014 and others like it \u2014 in our <strong>Free Survivors Guide<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<h2>An Urgent Wake-Up Call<\/h2>\n<p>On a hot morning in July 2019, John woke up with <a href=\"\/mesothelioma\/symptoms\/\">uncomfortable symptoms<\/a>. Instead of his usual high energy and enthusiasm to greet the day, John felt fatigued and scared. His face was pale, and he couldn\u2019t catch his breath.<\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>I just didn\u2019t feel good<\/strong>,\u201d John recalls. John was not the type to call out sick. He notes that he \u201calways worked,\u201d and spending 43 years as a <a href=\"\/occupations\/construction-workers\/\">construction worker<\/a> made him resilient.<\/p>\n<p>But Dee urged him to get medical attention.<\/p>\n<p>At the urgent care center, the medical team took X-rays of John\u2019s lungs. They were alarmed when they couldn\u2019t even see John\u2019s left lung on the X-ray because it was surrounded by <strong>two liters worth of fluid<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThey were amazed he was even able to breathe,\u201d Dee said.<\/p>\n<p>From there, the Stahls followed up with their family doctor, who referred John to an oncologist. A <a href=\"\/mesothelioma\/diagnosis\/imaging-scans\/ct\/\">CT scan<\/a> and <a href=\"\/mesothelioma\/diagnosis\/biopsy\/thoracoscopy\/\">thoracoscopy<\/a> revealed the devastating answer to John\u2019s symptoms.<\/p>\n<p>On August 19, 2019, John was diagnosed with stage 4 <a href=\"\/mesothelioma\/pleural\/\">pleural mesothelioma<\/a>, a type of mesothelioma that forms in the lining of the lungs. Despite being diagnosed in the most advanced stage of the disease, John was determined to fight.<\/p>\n<h2>Pushing Through Treatment\u2019s Toughest Moments<\/h2>\n<p>After he was diagnosed, John began <a href=\"\/treatment\/\">mesothelioma treatment<\/a> with chemotherapy every two weeks.<\/p>\n<p>Each <a href=\"\/treatment\/chemotherapy\/\">chemotherapy<\/a> session lasted about an hour, but the side effects lingered much longer. After each treatment, John would be physically exhausted for over a week. He wouldn\u2019t have the energy to leave his home or do things he enjoyed.<\/p>\n<p>All of this forced downtime took a toll on John, who wasn\u2019t used to spending so much time at home. \u201c<strong>That was hard for me because I\u2019m a pretty active person<\/strong>,\u201d he shared.<\/p>\n<p>But through it all, John stayed hopeful. His determination to keep fighting \u2014 and to eventually return to the life he cherished \u2014 helped him endure the toughest days.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI can\u2019t think of a day that John has said, \u2018Oh, feel sorry for me.\u2019 <strong>His positive attitude has kept him going<\/strong>, and I think that helps his health,\u201d shared Dee.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Fortunately, John eventually began feeling physically well again, and his optimistic outlook started matching his energy levels. He was able to embrace his active lifestyle once again, exploring the breathtaking landscapes of Arizona and Nevada with Dee by his side.<\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"blockquote-w-image \"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/john-stahl-hope-img.png\" alt=\"\" \/><blockquote><p>\u201c<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We spend a lot time out in the Arizona strip, up above St. George. <strong>We&#8217;ve gone to Moab. We&#8217;ve gone to Valley of Fire. Logandale Trails.<\/strong> There&#8217;s a lot of riding in this country<\/span>.\u201d<\/p>\n<footer>&ndash;<cite> John Stahl, 6+ year mesothelioma survivor<\/cite><\/footer><\/blockquote><style type=\"text\/css\">.blockquote-w-image{position:relative;margin:40px auto}.blockquote-w-image blockquote{background:none;border-left:none;padding:25px;margin-top:0;padding-bottom:0;font-size:inherit;line-height:inherit}.blockquote-w-image blockquote footer cite{font-size:inherit}.blockquote-w-image blockquote p{margin-bottom:0}.blockquote-w-image img{width:100px;border:none;border-radius:100%;box-shadow:none;position:relative;margin:0 auto}.blockquote-w-image.alternative{margin:60px auto}.blockquote-w-image.alternative blockquote{padding:25px 25px 25px 80px;padding-bottom:25px;background-color:#E4F4F6}.blockquote-w-image.alternative img{position:absolute;left:20px;top:25px;z-index:1;width:50px;border:1px solid #fff;box-shadow:0 0 10px rgba(34,34,34,0.2);border-radius:100%}.blockquote-w-image.with-border{background:none;border-left:4px solid #0FAEBF}.blockquote-w-image.with-border blockquote{background:none;border-radius:0;padding:10px 25px}.blockquote-w-image.with-border blockquote footer cite{font-size:inherit}.blockquote-w-image blockquote:before{display:none}@media screen and (min-width: 769px){.blockquote-w-image img{position:absolute;left:0;top:0}.blockquote-w-image blockquote{padding:0 25px 0 125px;min-height:90px}}@media screen and (min-width: 1024px){.blockquote-w-image.alternative blockquote{padding-left:105px}.blockquote-w-image.alternative blockquote footer cite{font-size:16px}.entry-content .blockquote-w-image.alternative img{width:60px;left:25px}}<\/style><\/div>\n<h2>Finding Love Again \u2014 and Defying the Odds<\/h2>\n<p>John\u2019s story isn\u2019t just about surviving cancer; it\u2019s also about finding happiness despite the odds.<\/p>\n<p>He and Dee first met in the 1970s, dating for a while before life took them in different directions. Both married other people and had children, but in 2008, they reconnected at an arts festival in Utah. Sparks flew, and <strong>they\u2019ve been inseparable ever since<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cNow I\u2019m getting emotional,\u201d Dee confessed. \u201cJohn always held a special place in my heart.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Today, John and Dee prioritize enjoying life \u2014 exploring Nevada\u2019s natural wonders, spending time with family, and off-roading with their \u201csnowbird\u201d friends.<\/p>\n<div class=\"blockquote-w-image \"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/dee-stahl.png\" alt=\"\" \/><blockquote><p>\u201cMy dream life is now. Being retired, <strong>having John healthy enough to do things<\/strong> and be happy. John\u2019s a very positive guy. He makes you happy.\u201d<\/p>\n<footer>&ndash;<cite> Dee Stahl, wife of mesothelioma survivor John Stahl<\/cite><\/footer><\/blockquote><style type=\"text\/css\">.blockquote-w-image{position:relative;margin:40px auto}.blockquote-w-image blockquote{background:none;border-left:none;padding:25px;margin-top:0;padding-bottom:0;font-size:inherit;line-height:inherit}.blockquote-w-image blockquote footer cite{font-size:inherit}.blockquote-w-image blockquote p{margin-bottom:0}.blockquote-w-image img{width:100px;border:none;border-radius:100%;box-shadow:none;position:relative;margin:0 auto}.blockquote-w-image.alternative{margin:60px auto}.blockquote-w-image.alternative blockquote{padding:25px 25px 25px 80px;padding-bottom:25px;background-color:#E4F4F6}.blockquote-w-image.alternative img{position:absolute;left:20px;top:25px;z-index:1;width:50px;border:1px solid #fff;box-shadow:0 0 10px rgba(34,34,34,0.2);border-radius:100%}.blockquote-w-image.with-border{background:none;border-left:4px solid #0FAEBF}.blockquote-w-image.with-border blockquote{background:none;border-radius:0;padding:10px 25px}.blockquote-w-image.with-border blockquote footer cite{font-size:inherit}.blockquote-w-image blockquote:before{display:none}@media screen and (min-width: 769px){.blockquote-w-image img{position:absolute;left:0;top:0}.blockquote-w-image blockquote{padding:0 25px 0 125px;min-height:90px}}@media screen and (min-width: 1024px){.blockquote-w-image.alternative blockquote{padding-left:105px}.blockquote-w-image.alternative blockquote footer cite{font-size:16px}.entry-content .blockquote-w-image.alternative img{width:60px;left:25px}}<\/style><\/div>\n<p>John and Dee have a blended family of four children and a granddaughter, who John proudly watched earn her master\u2019s degree. They also share their home with their \u201cniece\u201d \u2014 a Shih Tzu named Lily.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;<strong>It\u2019s just good to be happy,<\/strong>&#8221; John said. Dee added: \u201cWe\u2019re happy people.\u201d<\/p>\n<h2>Seeking Justice After a Tough Truth<\/h2>\n<p>John\u2019s diagnosis was especially hard because it came with the realization that his job \u2014 the one he loved \u2014 had made him sick. The <a href=\"\/asbestos\/\">asbestos<\/a> in the building materials he handled for over 40 years led to his mesothelioma.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI didn\u2019t know what to think. <strong>I didn\u2019t realize that my job had exposed me to asbestos<\/strong>,\u201d he said.<\/p>\n<p>He and Dee knew early on that they wanted to pursue a <a href=\"\/legal\/lawsuit\/\">mesothelioma lawsuit<\/a> when they discovered his cancer could have been prevented.<\/p>\n<div class=\"blockquote-w-image \"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/john-stahl-hope-img.png\" alt=\"\" \/><blockquote><p>\u201cWe filed a mesothelioma lawsuit to hold companies accountable. \u2026 I don\u2019t know how these people slept at night, knowing people were being exposed to asbestos, poisoning their bodies. <strong>They need to pay anyone who\u2019s been affected by this<\/strong>.\u201d<\/p>\n<footer>&ndash;<cite> John Stahl, 6+ year mesothelioma survivor<\/cite><\/footer><\/blockquote><style type=\"text\/css\">.blockquote-w-image{position:relative;margin:40px auto}.blockquote-w-image blockquote{background:none;border-left:none;padding:25px;margin-top:0;padding-bottom:0;font-size:inherit;line-height:inherit}.blockquote-w-image blockquote footer cite{font-size:inherit}.blockquote-w-image blockquote p{margin-bottom:0}.blockquote-w-image img{width:100px;border:none;border-radius:100%;box-shadow:none;position:relative;margin:0 auto}.blockquote-w-image.alternative{margin:60px auto}.blockquote-w-image.alternative blockquote{padding:25px 25px 25px 80px;padding-bottom:25px;background-color:#E4F4F6}.blockquote-w-image.alternative img{position:absolute;left:20px;top:25px;z-index:1;width:50px;border:1px solid #fff;box-shadow:0 0 10px rgba(34,34,34,0.2);border-radius:100%}.blockquote-w-image.with-border{background:none;border-left:4px solid #0FAEBF}.blockquote-w-image.with-border blockquote{background:none;border-radius:0;padding:10px 25px}.blockquote-w-image.with-border blockquote footer cite{font-size:inherit}.blockquote-w-image blockquote:before{display:none}@media screen and (min-width: 769px){.blockquote-w-image img{position:absolute;left:0;top:0}.blockquote-w-image blockquote{padding:0 25px 0 125px;min-height:90px}}@media screen and (min-width: 1024px){.blockquote-w-image.alternative blockquote{padding-left:105px}.blockquote-w-image.alternative blockquote footer cite{font-size:16px}.entry-content .blockquote-w-image.alternative img{width:60px;left:25px}}<\/style><\/div>\n<p>John said having Dee by his side during this time was \u201cindescribable.\u201d He said she \u201ctook the bull by the horns\u201d and hired top mesothelioma law firm Simmons Hanly Conroy to handle his case.<\/p>\n<p>John\u2019s lawsuit ended in a <a href=\"\/legal\/settlements\/\">mesothelioma settlement<\/a>, and the Stahls found much-needed peace of mind once the checks started to come in.<\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>You can take care of your children<\/strong>,\u201d John said. \u201cIt\u2019s just nice to know that there\u2019s something there for them.\u201d<\/p>\n<div class=\"callout-shortcode\"><style type=\"text\/css\">.callout-shortcode{background:#EDF8F9;border-radius:0 10px 10px 0;padding:20px 20px 20px 24px;margin:40px 0;max-width:860px;position:relative}.callout-shortcode:before{content:\" \";position:absolute;top:0;bottom:0;width:4px;height:100%;left:0;background:linear-gradient(180deg, #0FAEBF 0%, #EDF8F9 100%)}.callout-shortcode .callout-shortcode-heading{color:#100134;font-size:22px;display:block;margin:0 0 15px}.callout-shortcode:first-child{margin-top:0}.callout-shortcode:last-child{margin-bottom:0}.callout-shortcode .img-wrap{margin-bottom:20px}.callout-shortcode.hope>strong{padding-top:17px;padding-bottom:15px;padding-left:74px}.callout-shortcode.hope .img-wrap{left:22px;position:absolute;top:20px;width:59px}.callout-shortcode.hope .img-wrap:before{background:#fff 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href=\"\/survivors-guide\/\">Mesothelioma Survivors Guide<\/a>.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<h2>Get Support After a Mesothelioma Diagnosis<\/h2>\n<p>If you or someone you love is fighting mesothelioma, remember you are not alone. Mesothelioma Hope provides free resources and compassionate support to help make your journey easier.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Reach out to our team to:<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Connect with top <a href=\"\/treatment\/doctors\/\">mesothelioma doctors<\/a><\/li>\n<li>Learn how to pursue <a href=\"\/legal\/compensation\/\">compensation<\/a> for medical expenses<\/li>\n<li>Speak with nurses who can help you understand your <a href=\"\/mesothelioma\/diagnosis\/\">diagnosis<\/a><\/li>\n<li>Find <a href=\"\/resources\/support-groups\/\">support groups<\/a> where you can talk to other patients<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Call <a href=\"tel:+18666088933\" title=\"Click to call (866) 608-8933\" class=\"in-content-tel-link\" data-ce-category=\"Click to Call\" data-ce-label=\"(866) 608-8933\">(866) 608-8933<\/a> or fill out our <a href=\"\/about\/contact\/\">contact form<\/a> to get started.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Since his 2019 mesothelioma diagnosis, John Stahl \u2014 a devoted husband, father, grandfather, and friend \u2014 has been constructing something new: a life filled with love, adventure, and resilience. 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